I Married a Super Star

I spend a lot of time talking and being proud of our awesome son, Noah. I am going to take some time tonight and reflect on someone else that is very special in my life; my husband Steve. He is always looking to better himself in every, single aspect of life and so much of the determination and drive I have for trying my best everyday to be a great mom, comes from him. He sets our pace. Steve works a full time job, goes to school part time, manages a small home-based business, created and maintains a website and blog, pulls his weight at home and does not fall short in the slightest when it comes to being a father and husband. Here is why.

Steve is a Chemist and has been at his job for several years. He works very hard every day to try and make a work environment that is pleasant and takes time out of his day to recognize the strengths in his co-workers. You don’t come by that every day. People too often spend their lives miserable at their jobs without picking out a single positive! He makes his best attempt, every day, at applying the knowledge he has gained through all the audio books, motivational speakers and financial leaders that he listens to. I’m so proud of him for always putting his best foot forward and never looking back. He will, and is, making a big impression.

While maintaining, and striving, at his full time job, Steve has been taking classes at WMU to complete his degree. Thankfully he seems to be the type that stores information and doesn’t need to spend hours and hours studying to do well in a class. Steve performs well and is continuing to move forward on this front and I, again, am so proud of him for continuing to pursue this goal.

Steve has spent many hours over the last few years building a business called deSIGNed Vinyl. I remember when we first had the vinyl cutter delivered to the door of our 600 square foot apartment. There was NO WAY that big thing was going next to my dining room table! Well, 3+ years later, I realize what a great thing it really was. Not only do I have this machine at my disposal when I find a savvy quote I want on our wall at home, but Steve has really done a great job with the development of this company. He really strives to provide his customers with industry leading service and satisfaction all while making it a very personal experience. He has come a long way and I look forward to seeing where his knowledge and ideas take us in the future!!

When I say Steve pulls his weight at home, it is an understatement to say the very least. Steve is always saying, “What can I do to help?” The power in thse 6 words is astronomical! Even if I don’t need help, it always puts me at ease knowing he is on my team! After all, those that know me know that my body language is not strong at all when I am under pressure ;). Steve is so good at reading me. Okay ladies, here it goes! He sweeps and mops every floor surface in our house every weekend, he helps with the dishes, he dusts, he does laundry, he cleans bathrooms, and HE is not for sale! Lol! He blows my mind with how willing he is to help out with upkeep of the house. I will say, most men fall short in this area; however, Steve doesn’t! He is a SUPER STAR husband and I am 100% willing to scream that out loud!

Most importantly, Steve makes Noah and I his #1 priority no matter what. There has never been a time that I have felt Steve put work or school before our family. Steve has never missed a special day, occasion, or milestone with Noah and I have faith he never will. This is a father. Someone who sets an outstanding example everyday to his son relaying the idea that THIS is how a man, father and husband should be. Family comes first. Steve takes Noah to swimming lessons, soccer class, music class, and storytimes and enjoys himself all the while! Steve is teaching Noah very valuable lessons simply by the way he lives. Put your heart and all into everything that you do every day. Take risks. Fail. Apoligize. Succeed. Steve is the absolute best husband a woman could ever dream for. Leave your socks all over the house for the rest of our lives, hunny, and I clearly have no room to complain.

You knock it out of the park everyday, Steve, and I love to here your endless inspirational ideas, quotes, and business dreams. I have no doubt you will get there and at the pace you have set, time is no object. You keep fascinating me every day; with drive, goals, dreams, and plans. God knows I love a PLAN.


7 thoughts on “I Married a Super Star

  1. Baby, your too kind! I Love you so much and eveything I do is for you and our family. I just hope to always be the best husband possible and the best role model possible for Noah. Thanks for trying to convince everyone im a good guy! lol

  2. That was super sweet Amanda, that had to make your husband so proud and happy to hear you appreciate him so much, You two are a couple to admire! After 11 years of marriage I myself sometimes focus too much on the trials and tribulations we have experienced and forget to acknowledge all the good things about my hubby. Thanks for the reminder! Great post. : )

  3. Thank you for sharing! It’s a wonderful tribute to my nephew “Tommy” and especially to his parents. When your in-law Steven and I were growing up, our own parents, especially Grandpa Don, tried very hard to instill good, positive values and a strong work ethic and it looks like you’ve got the wonderful rewards passed down the family to your wonderful hubby and partner. Blessings to you and yours forever! It’s a joy to watch your family!

  4. Mandy, I can’t type through the tears, thats so beautiful, true, and deserving to Steve. He is a wonderful husband, father, son, and son in law, I have always said you should clone him, (God Blessed you with Noah), or video your journey. You both set such Great examples of living life at your greatest every day, everyone can take strength away from the inspiration you both radiate. Were so Proud of who you both have become.<3

  5. We are very proud of our son. He has become the man that is by following in his father’s footsteps as well as his own inner drive. You two make a dynamic couple. Noah has the best set of parents any child could have. Love you both!

  6. Thank you, everyone, for the kind words. I do feel that Steve and I live differently than many; we simply enjoy life, we enjoy the little things together in nature and the outdoors, and we try to make the most of everyday. Tomorrow is never a certain. Love you all!

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